To Vanson on his wedding
This is what we pasted on the wedding card we are giving our eldest cousin on his wedding day. We will be flying to HK for his dinner... We also did a puzzle for the newly wed.
Many things happened this week. Everything crashed together. My aunt (dad's 2nd sis) passed away on Sat, I was in the mist of my Carolyn's wedding, I could not leave, ended up only going over to my cousin's place yesterday.
At the funeral, saw my uncle (dad's elder bro). The whole family have not seen him for almost 3 years.
This morning, my mom, big aunt(dad's eldest sis), Robin and Audrey (my cousin and wife) flew off to HK for my eldest cousin's wedding. I'll be flying over on Wed together with Feng and Yin (my cousins). None of us except my bro and sis (they would not be going to HK)could see my aunt off on Wed morning.
Its so difficult when one has a wedding and a death so close to each other in a family. It so weird, we talked about the wedding last night at the funeral, and I'm sure we are going to talk about the funeral at the wedding... To smile at a funeral and cry at a wedding... weird family.

